Grounding & Calming Tools


1. 4-4-6 Breathing

Inhale for four seconds, hold for four, exhale for six. A longer exhale helps calm your nervous system and signals safety to your body.

2. 5-4-3-2-1 Sensory Grounding

Notice five things you see, four you can touch, three you hear, two you smell, and one you taste. This method helps bring your mind back to the present moment.

3. Temperature Shift

Hold something cool, like a water bottle or piece of metal, for a few seconds. The temperature difference helps interrupt stress reactions and steady your focus.

4. Name Three Safe Things Around You

Look around and identify three things that help you feel calmer or supported. This simple practice reminds your mind that you are in a safe space.

5. Gentle Body Movement

Roll your shoulders, stretch your arms, or stand and shake out your hands. Small movements help release tension and reset your body.

6. Focus on One Object

Choose an item near you — a pen, a picture, a spot on the wall — and study its details for 10–20 seconds. Anchoring your attention reduces overwhelm.

7. Supportive Touch

Place a hand on your chest or your forearm and notice the warmth. This simple technique encourages your body to relax and can help you feel steadier.

8. Slow Counting

Count slowly from 1 to 10, then back down to 1. Counting helps interrupt racing thoughts and creates a rhythm for your breathing.

9. Safe Imagery

Imagine a place where you feel calm or comfortable — a park, your room, or a quiet spot outside. Visualizing safety helps restore emotional balance.

10. Affirmation Anchor

Repeat a gentle statement like: “I am safe in this moment.” Even one sentence can help your mind shift away from stress and toward calm.